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1. Create realistic expectations -- don't try to make this the perfect holiday.
For many people, creating realistic expectations is the most challenging, and the most important principle to apply to the holiday season. It can be so easy to get caught up in cozy, romantic images of a fantasy holiday where everyone is happy together, everything runs smoothly, and the sounds of laughter echo to a backdrop of snowflakes and sleigh bells. As an alternative, think through your plans realistically and set simple measures of success, such as “May everyone feel some happiness.” 

The following excerpt from Joel and Michelle Levey’s book Living in Balance is a helpful reminder about how to find balance between expectations and reality:

In search of balance, it is helpful to think of everything – every quality, action, or object – as inseparable from its opposite: male and female; night and day; inside and outside. No matter how much you might like to have only the positives in life – freedom, peace, love – if you are seeking that static state, you will always be disappointed. For every thing also contains its opposite and both sides must be balanced: form and space, creativity and receptivity, activity and rest, growth and decay, manifest creation and the unmanifest source of all creation.

The good news is that, as your sense of balance grows, you’ll find it easier to integrate the other side, "the negatives," into your life; you’ll discover the clarity in the midst of confusion, the stillness at the center of motion, and the love that waits behind fear and anger. If you can learn to dance with the innumerable paradoxes of your life while staying anchored in an extraordinary suppleness and flexibility, you will create the stability necessary to actually find balance in your life.

© 1998 by Joel Levey and Michelle Levey

Top Ten Relaxation Tips for Reducing Holiday Stress
1. Create realistic expectations -- don't try to make this the perfect holiday.
2. Learn to say "no" to extra obligations that might stress you out.
3. Take short relaxation breaks to let go of tension.
4. Get involved in a volunteer activity where you help others.
5. Tap into your natural creativity and create a hand-made gift.
6. Eat and drink sensibly, and get plenty of exercise and sleep.
7. Practice being a peacemaker if family squabbles erupt.
8. Balance your spending of time and money to improve the quality of your life.
9. Create a new holiday tradition that builds connections among your family and friends.
10. Reflect on the deeper meaning and spirit of the holidays for you personally, for your family, and for humanity and the world.


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A Dynamic Approach for Creating Harmony and Wholeness in a Chaotic World -- Foreword by The Dalai Lama of Tibet

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