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2. Learn to say "no" to extra obligations that might stress you out.
The holidays are ripe with obligations. As the calendar fills to the brim, you may start feeling overbooked and overwhelmed. One way to prevent this is to practice the technique of mindfulness. By learning to mindfully reflect on how you plan to spend your time, you can better prioritize your obligations and make conscious choices about your time commitments. 

The following excerpt from Joel and Michelle Levey’s book Living In Balance will help you make better decisions about where you put your time and energy during the holidays:

Here’s a useful technique you can use to help you stay mindfully in balance every day. First, pick one day a week to set aside some time for mindful reflection on the larger picture of your life. Even a few minutes with the following questions can make a big difference in restoring your sense of balance:

  • What have I been paying the most attention to in my life this week?
  • What elements of my experience are calling for greater attention?
  • What specific activities do I want to bring greater awareness to?
  • How will becoming more aware improve the quality of my life, my relationships, and my work?
  • What indicators have reminded me that I had drifted off into mindlessness?

By giving yourself the gift of a few minutes each week to evaluate the level of awareness that you’re bringing to the things that matter most to you, you’ll be able to fine-tune and reset your attention patterns before you get too far off course. Then once a month, enjoy a special "day of mindfulness" celebration. On the day of the month that corresponds to your birthday, invite yourself to mindfully explore something new and different. Even for a little while that day do something, in some way, that you’ve never done before. The freshness of mind that you bring to experiencing something for the first time is a good way to refresh your taste of mindfulness!

© 1998 by Joel Levey and Michelle Levey

Top Ten Relaxation Tips for Reducing Holiday Stress
1. Create realistic expectations -- don't try to make this the perfect holiday.
2. Learn to say "no" to extra obligations that might stress you out.
3. Take short relaxation breaks to let go of tension.
4. Get involved in a volunteer activity where you help others.
5. Tap into your natural creativity and create a hand-made gift.
6. Eat and drink sensibly, and get plenty of exercise and sleep.
7. Practice being a peacemaker if family squabbles erupt.
8. Balance your spending of time and money to improve the quality of your life.
9. Create a new holiday tradition that builds connections among your family and friends.
10. Reflect on the deeper meaning and spirit of the holidays for you personally, for your family, and for humanity and the world.


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A Dynamic Approach for Creating Harmony and Wholeness in a Chaotic World -- Foreword by The Dalai Lama of Tibet

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